Sunday, July 29, 2012

All about July

Does anyone know where summer has gone?  I am getting a little sad as we get ready to turn another page on the calendar to move into August this week.  It starts a whole lot of forward planning to get ready for the new school year, and a whole lot of cramming to get all of our last minute summer fun things completed.  But if we're in a race with summer right now, summer is definitely winning!


We have been having lots of fun, although my picture taking has been a bit lacking.  I blame the 6 month old little girl who won't allow me to put her down for even a second...and don't think I'm kidding.  To tell you about the crocodile tears that  I see when I sit her down so that I can, I don't know, use the bathroom or something totally selfish like that.  It's making me a little bit crazy...and I may well be on my way there if she weren't my third such baby.  But I know it's a phase, and I've made it my mission this time to just enjoy each stage instead of dreading them.  So, things have been a bit more challenging in terms of being productive,  but I've also had a whole lot of baby kisses and tons of snuggle time with Mara.  And I know that, down the road, I'm going to cherish those slobbery kisses more than I am an empty dishwasher. And so it goes.

Early in July, right after my last post, we started a week of Bible School.  Lord, please forgive me, but this is likely my least favorite week of the entire summer each year.  Not because it isn't awesome, because it certainly is.  But because I get so worn out by the end of the week from working all day, running home just long enough to change clothes (if I'm lucky), stuff food into the kids and then rush out the door again, only to return three hours later with dirty, tired, sugar filled kids who need to go to bed, but still need baths, another snack, pj's and some general winding down.  Do that 5 days in a row, and that ought to explain my sentiments on the subject.  This year, Joshua was a big boy and went to his own class without me.  I stayed with Lauren's class with Mara attached to my hip (shocker).  We had fun, but spending that time with that many small kids was probably part of my exhaustion.  The picture below is a picture of Joshua on the night they were asked to dress up as cowboys or cowgirls.  He was all over it!  The highlight of the week for him was winning the contest that night for the best costume.  He was the only one of the kids who brought a horse.  But in his words, "Every cowboy needs a horse."  True story, Josh.



The kids have spent many afternoons swimming in the pool on the deck.  It's not fancy or big, but it works when it's hot and they need to cool off.  I so wish I had more time this summer to have spent days with them at the big public pool, but the work schedule just hasn't allowed that.  They both love the water, but I'm learning that I'm going to have to be much more purposeful about getting them into swimming lessons.

We had a great time on my birthday at the Sunday School class picnic at the house of one of our classmates who have a pool.  I will spare you the details about the tragic ending to that event when, on my last trip to the van with all of our belongings, I spilled an entire container of pasta salad all over Mara and their kitchen floor.  We'll focus on the positive, which was that all three of the kids had an absolute blast swimming in the pool.  Joshua is getting more brave, Lauren remembered swimming from last year at the beach and wasn't afraid and Mara just kicked and splashed and squealed the whole time.  Really, up until the pasta salad, we were having a great time!



There has been a whole lot of sister love lately.  Mara is smitten with Lauren, and the feeling seems to be mutual.  I absolutely love watching the girls together, smiling and giggling with each other.  I just hope it is a bit of foreshadowing for the years that are to come.  I pray daily for the relationship of all three of the kids, and that they will always be close with each other.


Mara has been working hard on some big girl stuff in recent weeks.  She has mastered sitting up on her  own and now rarely falls over unless she's reaching off to her side or purposely wants to roll over for a while.  She has also been a pro at eating baby food and has made it through all of her fruits and veggies.  The only ones she doesn't really like are peas and peaches, but even the peas have been OK lately.  She's eating two solid meals a day right now- a veggie, fruit and cereal around lunch, and the same combo at supper.  We'll soon start some yogurt as well.  She is growing like a weed- lately moving into mostly 6 month clothes and putting on what I estimate to be a little more than a pound since her 7/9 doctor's appointment.  As I recall, this was the same growth pattern that Lauren had, so I'm hoping that all of the worries about her weight gain are behind us.  She continues to nurse well, and often- usually every 3 hours round the clock.  If we're lucky, we get one 4 hour stretch during the day, which is helpful for the pumping situation while I'm at work.  The sleeping, well....that's not pretty.  She's up constantly and only sleeps soundly when she's either in my arms in the rocking chair or sleeping beside me while she nurses.  We have some work to do there, but this too shall pass.  What hasn't changed is that we love her to pieces.  Honestly, I just can't get enough of that adorable grin.

See, I can't even stop myself from taking multiple pictures!


And finally, Mara isn't the only one with big girl milestones to celebrate.  Look who else got to move out of her crib/toddler bed into a big girl double bed!  She was so excited about it, especially when she got to pick out her bedding and decorations.  It was no surprise that out of a whole aisle of girly bedroom stuff at Target, she chose the purplest one.  She's such a big girl all of a sudden.  The best news is that she hasn't woken up in the middle of the night since we set the bed up for her.  And that, my friends, was worth every penny.


Hope your summer has been going well, just like ours has.  We are gearing up for a very exciting August- a trip to Lewistown this coming weekend for the Richard Reunion, our yard sale and the beach trip at the end of the month.  More pictures soon!

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Beating the Heat

With the summer temps reaching triple digits, there was only one way we could think of to beat the heat...



...Turn the deck into our own summer oasis.  Daddy and the big kids had a day together on Saturday while I travelled to Lewistown with Mara for the memorial service for Jill Richard.  And I think he had the right idea when he disappeared to Target on Friday afternoon for the necessary supplies to set up this pool for the kids.  Evidently they were in it all afternoon and had a blast.

When Mara and I returned from our trip, we even jumped in for a dip.  It was Mara's first time swimming, and I think she liked it.  Regardless, she looked adorable in her suit.  Me....well, not so much.  But it's about the kids, right?


Today we went to church, and then headed home for round 2 on the deck.  They're still having a blast.  Mara has had a nap in her crib for the first time, and is now happily playing beside me in her exersaucer while the big kids swim.  They even had a visit from the ice cream truck (who happened to be Jason's Key Club advisor from high school...the whole reason we ever met).  Needless to say, they enjoyed their Dora and Spiderman popsicles immensely.



We are appreciating these 80-ish temperatures a whole lot more than the super hot ones of the past few days.  VBS starts tomorrow, and with it the rat race of working and then hurrying home to get everyone fed, changed and packed up for the evening, along with snacks made to match what the other kids are having.  My prayers are for stamina for me and that the kids will have a really good time.  They're looking very forward to it.

Thursday, July 5, 2012

Overload

At the risk of overload, I decided to combine a few posts into one tonight.  It's like Christmas.  More Dugans than you can take all at once.  But I'm learning my limitations, and I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that there was no way I would be able to be hands free long enough tonight to do three separate posts.  So, hang on...

Today is Mara's 6 month birthday.  To say I wonder where the time has gone would be a huge understatement.  Honestly, I can hardly imagine that it was 6 months ago this evening that I was making frantic calls and text messages to let people know that Miss Mara was coming a week before her scheduled debut.  And then, on the other hand, it's hard to imagine that there was ever life without her.

Mara continues to be such a joy.  She has taken a bit of a turn into the "Mommy crazy" department in recent weeks, but as I recall from our first two rodeos, this is about the age when that starts to happen.  And so, she is my velcro baby, always attached to me, whether she is eating or just coming along for the ride.  Many times, I find it maddening to have to do everything one handed---- everything.  But mostly I'm just so happy that I don't care that it takes me 4 days to fold a load of laundry.  And I'm not exaggerating.

Mara is a decent sleeper, as long as she is in her miracle blanket.  I usually put her into her crib by 9:30 and she has been sleeping (Lord, please don't let me jinx us by saying this out loud) until between 3-4 am until she wants to eat again.  Usually I can get her back into her bed within an hour and catch a few minutes of sleep before it is time to get up for the day.  She is still nursing 6-7 times a day, and isn't supplemented with formula anymore at all.  My guess is that she weighs around 12.5 lb (not quite to the double birth weight that they want to see), but we'll confirm that next week at her doctor's appointment.


Mara loves her cereal and eats either rice or oatmeal cereal two times a day.  She gobbles it up and then kicks her legs and arms asking for more.  Just tonight, she got to try some carrots for the first time (the big kids picked which veggie they thought she would like).  The verdict was pretty good- she probably had a full tablespoon without too much protest.  We have just moved into size 2 diapers and she is still wearing 3 month clothes.  The length is going to get us before the waist measurements.  Luckily with summer sunsuits and shorts, we're in decent shape for a while.


Mara is a rolling champ and loves her exersaucer.  She has recently started to be able to sit up with the boppy around her, and is enjoying playing with teething toys and rattles.  She is a chewer for sure- loving to chew fingers, phones, anything she can get her hands on.  I often say she's like an octopus, grabbing things from my hands without me even knowing it.  Frustrating at times, but all part of the development I'm sure.

Sweet as ever, and such a blessing to us.  Happy half birthday, sweet girl.  I couldn't possibly tell you how much I love you and love getting to be your Mommy.  But I'll spend the rest of my days trying to show you.

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One of our favorite Lewisburg traditions happened this past weekend as we joined the Mowry crew and some other friends at the Lewisburg 4th of July parade.  This year was extra special because Daddy got to join us.  Here is 1/2 of the gang...


 ...and there is the group of 6.  Notice that Lauren is protesting her participation.

We had a great time, the kids ate about 16 lbs of candy and had their patriotic fill by the end of the parade.

Then, on Sunday morning, we barely squeezed everything into the van for what has become an annual trip to Benezette with my family.  How Jason made it all fit is a miracle.  2.5 hrs later we were pulling in to the Winslow Meadow Lodge for some mountain fun and relaxation. We saw a bear almost immediately upon arrival but no elk, which I am sure is a direct result of the noise level that 4 small children create.  We swam, did crafts, chased each other around the deck, made campfires, walked the trails at the new Visitors Center, ate too much, had slumber parties in the living room and laughed a whole bunch.  It was wonderful.  We are all already looking forward to the October PSU weekend we have planned there.



So many special memories -- and we still have half of summer left!