Cherishing the little, magical moments of motherhood. Sharing my thankfulness for the blessings God has granted to me.
Monday, September 29, 2008
Sunday, September 28, 2008
What a weekend!
As I steal a few moments away from what I SHOULD be doing this morning (laundry!), I thought I'd try to post a quick update about the events of the weekend for all of the loyal Monday morning readers. (HA!) I should note that the Prince is fast asleep (I KNOW....it's 7:54!)
The weekend was awesome. Despite the pouring down rain on Friday and Saturday morning, our day at Beaver Stadium turned out perfectly. Emily's Pap assured me on Saturday morning that it wouldn't rain for the game. He was mostly right (somehow Paps always are) and we escaped the game pretty much as dry as we were when we got there. A quick shower as we packed up the tent and two little periods of drizzle during the game. Nothing a true Penn State fan can't handle. Clearly, we've been there for MUCH worse than that. (My mind flashes back to the game when I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with Joshua that we literally sat in the pouring down rain all day just because we were afraid it might be the last game that season that we got to see.) But I digress...
The PSU tailgate was fantastic. Good food...great friends...and a chance to show my cousins from Massachusetts what a real PSU game is like. I think they were really surprised by the spectacle that it was. We took them to see the team buses pull in to the stadium, they experienced the chug line, playing washer toss (and dangle balls...which I won't go into) and had enough food and "beverage" to add to the fun. We were blessed with extra company of Steph and Jessy, Emily, Earl and Emily's Pap (who won the prize for BEST contribution to the tailgate menu with perhaps the best chocolate chip cookies I have ever eaten and (breast milk) whoopie pies. There's a story there. Adam and Karyn joined in the fun as well and rounded out a very diverse, yet very fun tailgating crew. Can't wait to do it again.
I can't say enough about the game either. It was one of the most fun games I've been to in quite some time. Anytime you put together 109,000 people, most of whom have been enjoying the day together since early in the morning, put them under the lights to cheer on a good PSU team that they love, it's going to be good. And this one was. I was Penn State proud all the way to my toes on Saturday night. When the Blue Band comes out on to the goal line to start their pre-game show, and when the Alma Mater plays are the two moments that I get choked up at a PSU game. I'm thankful for my Penn State experience, and proud beyond belief to say that I'm a Penn State Alumni.
To add to the fun, a fellow University Choir singer happened to sit beside us.....RIGHT BESIDE US.......at the game. I couldn't believe it...or remember his name, but I suddenly felt better when he told me he knew that we had sung together and did the Europe tour together, but he couldn't remember my name either. We caught up a bit during the game, so that was fun. He was a former Blue Band trumpet player and a tenor in U Choir. But the irony of sitting next to someone that you graduated with was kind of bizarre. Add to that that another professional acquaintance from the area here marched up the steps to his seat just as we were sitting down. It's always a hoot to be there among so many people and run into familiar faces. But THAT'S Penn State.
Since this is JOSHUA'S blog, perhaps I should also include him on the fun. Friday night we had such a great evening at my parents' house with my Uncle Jerry and Aunt Carol and Chris and Tim from Massachusetts. Joshua especially enjoyed Pappy Ray too.
Saturday was a special day with Nana and Pap for him. He had been looking forward to tractor rides and gator time, but the rain put most of those plans on the back burner. Dad did tell me that they spent some time in the garage "fixing" things with Joshua's tools, and that seemed to soften the blow of only being able to go on one short tractor ride in between rain showers. Libby and Brooke came over to enjoy the day as well, and I think Joshua really enjoyed that. He keeps telling me about Brooke and how fun it was to play with Aunt Libby. I can't wait until the two of them can really play together....get into trouble together....the whole bit. I swear, Brooke is getting cuter by the second. Libby posted new pictures on her blog yesterday that just about made me cry when I saw them. I don't know how it happens, but I just love her to bits more and more each day. I wish I got to see them more, but maybe I'll just have to put that into the schedule more often. Sorry about your luck Lib, but Aunt Meg is having withdrawl!!!!
Sunday Nana and Josh got up and played while I caught up on a little more sleep. We got in about 1:30 on Sunday morning from the game, so when Joshua was raring to go at 6, I wasn't quite as enthusiastic. They had such fun. I think Joshua was really sad to leave their house yesterday. He had a very mopey look on his face all the way home and wouldn't talk to us. I honestly think he was mad that we brought him home. We assured him that he would see Nana and Pap again soon....but I don't think it's soon enough for him. Joshua enjoyed a few firsts yesterday. He had his first chocolate chip cookie and his first taste of lollipop yesterday. Pictures above. It was pretty cute.
Music class tonight, so I'll post about that tomorrow.
Friday, September 26, 2008
Happy Friday!
We had some silly play time this morning before I headed off to work. "On your mark....get set....GO!" was Joshua's game of choice. He says that and then runs full speed into me while I sit on the living room floor, giggling all the way.
It was night #4 of complete sleep. I'm starting to actually feel rested. Amazing.
The Jeep is officially packed "to the hilt". I'm not sure I ever really new what that meant until last night when we reached that status with the Jeep. Joshua's car seat had to be rearranged in order to get all the goods into the vehicle. I'm pretty sure that we've secured anything that could fly into him and hurt him...but good grief do we ever have a pile of stuff to take for this tailgate. Food for an army. Tables. Tent. Chairs. Blankets. Beer. Beer. Beer. Washer toss game. Cooler. We even outfitted the antennae with a PSU flag for spirit. Let's hope for blue, sunshiny skies tomorrow for a great day in Happy Valley. Fight on State!
Looking very forward to arriving in Lewistown to see Brooke and Libby and the clan from Massachusetts. Should be a super fun weekend. Stand by for pictures on Monday.
Thursday, September 25, 2008
A little person lives with us.
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
We may be on to something here...
Anyone who has followed our blog, seen me in daily life with toothpicks holding my eyes open, or had the pleasure of getting one of "those" phone calls after a bad night with Joshua knows that sleeping is not his forte...not even close. Well, I've read all I can read. And the part of this whole thing that feels like Chem I is the process of experimentation. We try things- even things that don't seem like they'd make much sense. Is it the bedtime routine? Is the room too light? Too dark? Is he going to bed too early? Too late? Did he eat something for supper that is causing him not to sleep? You can seriously drive yourself to drink over this stuff. So, you go about your experiment changing one little thing at a time. Mostly, at least in the case of our son, it makes absolutely no difference. And the way you keep yourself from being committed is that you figure, "well, there's one more thing that it CAN'T be". Until...eureka...you find something that works. That's kind of where we are today, after (gasp) two full nights of sleep from Joshua.
My cardinal sin as a mother was to get him used to being rocked to sleep. Normally, I rock with him and read Dr. Seuss books until I can't rhyme one more silly word with another one. His latest obsession is "Yertle the Turtle". Very cute if you haven't had the pleasure of reading that one a million times. So on Sunday night, he was snoring away in my lap until I moved him into his bed to sleep. The eyeballs popped open and I figured I was in for another round of the Doctor...but instead, he eventually closed those beautiful peepers and went to sleep. We've exchanged the air conditioning in our house for the fall fresh air, so it's been a bit chilly at night time. I then covered him up with an afghan that he couldn't really roll out from under, so he couldn't get too cold during the night at wake up from that. I didn't hear another thing from him until 6 the next morning. Last night I figured I'd try the same thing. Yertle the Turtle until just about asleep, then into bed. (We had to do that twice last night.) Then he fell asleep...got the afghan treatment and slept until 5:15. I know most moms wouldn't celebrate a 5:15 awakening, but for us, this is a major victory.
So, that was a very long way of saying that we're doing better and we'll keep working on this new program we've developed. Keep your fingers crossed!
Monday, September 22, 2008
Joshua's Photo Shoot
Sunday, September 21, 2008
Spoiled by Daddy...& Weekend Sillies
Reading silly books with Daddy...can't you almost hear that giggle?
It's been a fun weekend for us. We were thrilled to have Daddy return home from his long week away in New York when he got home on Friday afternoon. Joshua didn't leave his side all Friday evening. I really think he missed him a lot.
Saturday was a quiet day at home. We had some PSU football to watch on TV. We ended up selling our tickets because of the complications of arranging weekend care for Joshua. We weren't quite up for another trip to Lewistown, although I'm sure Joshua would have jumped at the chance to visit with Nana and Pap. So we tucked in for the weekend at home and enjoyed each other. Jason mowed our jungle of a lawn on Saturday morning while I appropriately laid to rest all of the summer flowers that have died over the past week. Joshua spent the entire two hours we were outside running his lawn mower just like daddy. Then he'd jump on the tractor and wave at Daddy while he drove. He's now learned to steer, although not really well yet. But it's amazing how fast he's picked that up. Drivers license, here he comes!
Today has been quiet...church this morning, football this afternoon, a nice long nap for Joshua. We've got some fantastic baked spaghetti for supper, so that'll surely be a hit with the little guy.
I'm getting kind of tricky here this afternoon. There are actually two new posts today, so don't miss the photos below. More to come this week...counting down to the big PSU/Illinois game on Saturday night and my next chance to visit with Brooke on Friday! Hurry up weekend!!!!
"Hello State Farm..."
Joshua and I had a short visit to the office on Friday morning after his breakfast date with Mark (aka Kiwanis meeting). Every visit to Mommy's office is like a tornado...he has to touch everything, move it to a different spot, and then run around it like a May pole. But he seems to have fun, and I think Julie and Bonnie enjoy the diversion from the everyday stuff we do. Julie snapped these few pictures of him. I just love the one at the door---- I was outside at the car getting something for him and he was anxiously awaiting my return. The one with the phone is pretty funny (although not overly flattering). He was picking up Julie's phone and saying "Hello...State Farm". Maybe the fourth generation State Farm agent in our family? Who knows...
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
We're Back!
10. Joshua got to meet Brooke for the first time on Sunday evening. Amazingly, Libby was feeling well enough to come to Mom and Dad's house for supper. I think that getting out of the house was probably the most important part of that equation, and we enjoyed every single second. Pictures follow of Joshua meeting Brooke and interacting with her for the first time. He was very intrigued and wanted desperately to "help" her with things (bink, bottle, etc.) He did give her several kisses so that was very sweet.
9. Fall air! I don't know about where everyone else is, but Monday felt like a real fall day and I couldn't have been more excited. I had packed long pants for us, but definitely not long sleeve shirts, so Nana had to make a quick shopping run to pick up a sweatshirt or long sleeve t-shirt for Joshua in order to play outside. She came home with some adorable stuff for him. Let the fall season begin----summer's OVER!!
8. Special play time with Nana. Joshua decided that he would rather stay at mom and dad's house and play with Nana while I went out to spend a little more time with Brooke and Libby on Monday and Tuesday afternoons. They played outside the whole time I was gone both days and climbed on Pap's tractor, played with all of the extension cords in the garage (unplugged, of course, before anyone calls the Safety Patrol on us) and rode the Gator all over the place. Joshua had a blast and I loved my chances to spend some quiet, uninterrupted time with Libby and Brooke.
7. TRACTOR RIDES! I believe the complete count was up to 4 total tractor rides by the time we left Lewistown this afternoon. And each ride had its own adventure. One time, they saw a flock of turkeys. Once they went to visit Pappy Fred and Freda. This afternoon they finally caught up with John and Digger and Mia (Joshua's favorite puppy friends in Lewistown) and John gave Joshua a juice box for the ride back up the hill. He was in his glory when he returned.
6. Not really a highlight, but a good story nonetheless...DEAD DEAD BIRD. On one of Joshua and Nana's adventures outside, they discovered a bird who had met his maker by crashing into the windows on the side of the house. Joshua was completely mesmerized by the bird and stood looking at it from inside the house repeating "dead dead bird" over and over again. Pap finally returned to throw it into the woods this morning.
5. Joshua's first campfire. Last evening, Dad had a Kiwanis project going on at the local park and suggested that if Mom and I were looking for something to do, we could bring Joshua out to the park for a while. It was far too nice of a night to sit inside, so we packed Joshua up for an evening of fresh air at the playground. It turned out that Pap and the other Kiwanians had a campfire going and Joshua just loved it. He did learn that it was "hot" and that he couldn't go close to it, but he's been talking about that quite a bit since we got home this afternoon. It was fun to be back at the park because of all the time I spent there while growing up. All of the Relay for Life activities I participated in as a Key Clubber, and the mini golf course we played growing up were all there. And truly, nothing about that place has changed. Add to that the surreal feeling of being there with our son and seeing people that I had known during high school being there with their own kids...it was strange, but tons of fun.
4. Green Ice Cream... One of my favorite family recipes is jello & ice cream (and it has to be lime jello for me!) and it just so happened that Mom had prepared that for dessert on Sunday evening when we arrived. Joshua has never had much in the way of desserts, mostly because we can't get him to eat the food he's SUPPOSED to eat, so there isn't a lot of reward with dessert for him. But he ate a wonderful dinner on Sunday night and had deserved a taste of "green ice cream" (as he called it). I have never seen him dive into anything like he did that dessert. He wound up eating two bowls of it that night and another after his dinner on Monday. Grandma Mary would have been so proud of him.
3...2...and 1...Brooke Brooke and Brooke! The entire purpose of our trip was to spend time with Libby and Zig and Brooke and we tried to do as much of that as we could without completely wearing out our welcome in Burnham. Brooke is so sweet and Libby and Zig are doing such a wonderful job getting adjusted to parenthood. It was just a blessing to watch it all. We served as gophers for Lib, which worked out wonderfully. I distinctly recall the feelings of utter helplessness once Jason returned to work following our c-section. I wasn't allowed to go anywhere and there are sometimes just things that you need. So, we tried to help do whatever it was that she needed. Laundry switched or started...done. Bottles washed...I'm your girl. Spit up cleaner upper....Aunt Meg's specialty. But just getting to be in the same house with that precious baby girl made me feel like I had won the lottery. I particularly enjoyed watching Joshua react to her. And the most special times were when it was just Libby and I talking together without the rush of a million people in and out, when I could hold Brooke, snuggle with her, and tell her how much we love her. Being an aunt is pretty amazing. And I can only hope to be the kind of aunt to Brooke that Libby is to Joshua. Enjoy a few pictures of this little bug...
And, most importantly, if Daddy is checking this from his Blackberry at the hotel, we miss you and we love you very much. Can't wait until you get home on Friday!
More soon!
Thursday, September 11, 2008
Every good and perfect gift...
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Tractors, Gators and DIRT!
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
T-Minus 6 Wakeups...
We're looking very forward to spending our last "pre-Brooke" weekend with Mom, Dad, Lib and Zig in Lewistown this weekend. Joshua better enjoy not having to share his beloved Aunt Ibby...although I have a feeling we'll have a pretty even trade off when we're together. I can't wait to meet our new niece and love her to pieces. The whole idea of Libby and I both having children is very surreal...it seems like it was only yesterday that we were playing Hungry Hungry Hippos on our front porch with our neighborhood friends and dressing up our Cabbage Patch Kids for walks around the block. Maybe it felt strange to her when Joshua was born too...I don't know. But I'm so proud of my baby sister and her wonderful husband and just can't wait to share parenthood with them. They're going to be AWESOME!
In other news, Joshua slept through the night last night! YAY for our little monkey! I woke up at 5:00 to the alarm clock...and then realized that I felt pretty rested. Joshua woke for the first time at 5:45, but fell fast asleep again until about 7:30. He awoke smiling and very proud of himself. I sure hope we can get back into this kind of a schedule again soon. Mommy likes to sleep at least a little bit during the night.
Enjoy a few pictures from this morning...he was making some silly faces and I tried to capture them the best I could.
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
"Love you big big much..."
"High Five Daddy...Good luck golfing!"
That's how Joshua greeted me on Friday morning...and my heart melted. That one ranks right up there with him saying "Mommy so pretty" a few weeks ago.
We had such a fun LONG weekend...and I hope you enjoyed the pictures. Friday night was a quiet one at home. We cleaned some and got some quick groceries to make a dessert to take along to our family picnic on Sunday. Joshua was his usual giggly self, and we loved it. We've been noticing lately that he's much more content to play on his own than he used to be. Now granted, you have to keep at least one eye on him at all times, but he's able to entertain himself (mostly with his trucks and tractors) for 10 minutes or more without needing to be constantly talked to. Mommy and Daddy are enjoying this change very much. I was beginning to think that I was never going to be able to pee in private again. (Sorry...but it's the truth.)
Saturday, Joshua played with Grandma while Jason and I went to the PSU game. You'd have thought that it was the Ohio State game with the amount of traffic that we had to contend with on the way to State College. What should have been an hour drive and a leisurely morning at the stadium soaking up our PSU spirit turned into a sprint from Centre Community Hospital in order to make it for kickoff. We entered WD just as the band was playing the alma mater, so I sang while we climbed to our seats. The game was so much fun to watch, and I think the team has a great shot at being pretty good this year. We have some really special PSU plans this year, including a day of tailgating with the Confer cousins from Massachusetts on the 27th for Illinois (night game!) and Lindsay's return to Beaver Stadium with Ian for Michigan State, and a trip with Bill and Staci too. We can't wait to break out the new propane crock pot for some chili or chicken noodle soup once the fall air turns for good.
Sunday was a family picnic day in McClure with Grandma Shirley and Bill. Joshua had such fun playing in the great outdoors. He dug in the stones, drove trucks and his tractor all over the place, and chased gorillas with Pap from under the porch. I should add that he is STILL (as of this morning) saying "probably gorillas" and looking for them under everything. Thanks a lot Dad! He laughed and giggled and loved playing with Danaca and Neen and Stephanie and Stacie. He missed his Aunt Libby so much, but understood that she just wasn't feeling up to the excitement. He only left with one small spill in the stones that hardly left a mark (though he cried as though he had lost a limb). Joshua and Nana spent some time on his tractor and he really seemed to enjoy playing with her. He's already talking about going to Nana and Pap's house this weekend to ride on the big tractor with Pap. Little does he know about Pap's gator that's waiting for him to try. I so love seeing Joshua interact with everyone and to see how that interaction has changed over the past 2 years. He now remembers everyone and looks very forward to playing with them again. He hopped right up into people's laps and talked to them freely. And that makes us so happy to know that, even though some miles separate us from the majority of the family, Joshua has gotten to experience the same memories of our extended family that I remember from growing up. We are very blessed.
Monday was a quiet day at home. Labor Day to me meant LAUNDRY day. How three people (one of them miniature) make so much laundry I have no idea. Daddy went golfing while the little guy took a nap and Mommy kept cleaning. The baked ziti picture came from dinner on Monday evening--- I've never seen Joshua dive into baked ziti like that before. He hadn't eaten well all day, but I'd like to credit that one to my good cooking. Hee hee!
It's a shame that these nice, long weekends don't come around more often. We sure did enjoy our extra time with Josh...the minutes are flying by so fast, but we're cherishing them as much as we can. Happy Tuesday everyone!